How to have control on ourselves

                  Your control

Past, present, or future? 

          A foolish person went to the island for having some quality time. In the evening he thought he should go back home because it was getting darker. He did collect all his belongings and put them into the boat and started to paddle the boat with an oar. He was really tired and it was almost morning now when he saw towards and confused there is still no way for home. When he saw backward he was really shocked that he paddles the boat all night and he forgot to untie the rope and didn't even move an inch from the place. The same is the case with your life there are many people who just think about the past and get stuck there, as a result, bad things happen to them so the boat of their life just stands in one place. They don't cut the rope and never try to move on so that's why their past never leaves them alone. Just think if someone wants to achieve his goals but he starts running to the opposite side. Can he reach his destination? Never...

         Our past was just a time period for us to learn the lessons and move forward with the better version of "YOU". We can't change the past with any superpower. The past days never come back. But we can only do one thing we can learn from the bad experiences in the past and then just forget them and stop thinking and talking about the past. Mistakes make us strong, better physically, and mentally. These mistakes really help us a lot to be a better person. 

        Similarly, many people start living in dreams about the future and make an imaginary world in their minds. No one knows what will happen tomorrow so why think about the unexpected future? Stop taking stress about the future. What will happen in the future will be decided at that time? Your real treasure is "TODAY". Because you can change your today so your future will be decided on what you do today. You can't change your past you can never predict what your future will be. Just take a breath and start working on the present which will eventually make your future bright. That time is not far enough when this present will end. The best way to change your future is to learn how to utilize your present.

         Every passing second, hour, day and every year is saying you a goodbye. It really doesn't matter how long you lived but what actually matters is did you enjoy your time? Just make it productive and get benefit from it. The most important time is your PRESENT. The moment you are living right now. Do work hard in your present and your future will automatically turn good. The past is a memory, the future is a dream but the present is REALITY. Wise people don't cry for the past, don't think about the future but they make their present beautiful so that's why they live their lives happily. Unconcernedness is no less than any cates.

         Usually, people are mentally absent while doing their work. They just get lost in their past and start losing interest in their real-life the present. So, that's why they can't complete any task properly. While eating something, driving, or with family usually people are living in past or thinking about mistakes they made and the stress of what will happen in the future so that's why they can't enjoy their present properly. You'll be sad too if you're talking to a sad person. Sadness and depression destroy your mind. A happy and peaceful situation will make you mentally stress-free and happy. And living and enjoying in present make you happier than anything else.

         Just stop thinking about the future. Try to live in the present and make it beautiful. Always think that whatever you have is enough and you should be thankful for that and always work hard to achieve better don't make yourself comfortable when you think you got everything. Just try to work hard to get better things and work for them. Make your present beautiful so your future will be beautiful too. Just have faith in the ALLAH that he gave you food and Success yesterday he will give it to you today and in the future too. So, we don't need to worry about anything but we should have patience and hard work. Never loose believe here is an example of a flower which was yesterday and now it's finished but still, you have its seeds it can grow it again and again the only thing you need to do is grow plants today and have flowers in the future. The same is the case with the future we can't achieve anything until and unless we work hard for it just like we need to take care of the plant so in the future it will give you a flower. Just have patience and faith your future will be beautiful. Just start working from today.